ManEvolving
High Value Men's Coaching

Why Hire a Coach?
About Coaching 
About ManEvolving
About Blake
Testimonials
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Blake Tumbleson, BS, CLC, M.NLP

"As men, we all face struggles and frustrations during our life. Engaging a professional coach is a sign of emotional maturity and strength. It will give you a personal and competitive edge. I help men become the architects and builders of their future."  
100% Confidential
  Your inquiry, and our work together will only be known by you, me, and whoever you choose to tell.
Judgement-Free
  I've been there and made some unfortunate (aka: "bad") decisions. My goal is to partner with you, and help.  
You will NOT be judged.
Results-Based
  Each session will have a goal.  Your overall coaching will have a goal.  Our sessions are about creating new results in your life!

Why Hire a Coach?

Here are just some of the reasons why men hire a coach...

  • Achieve More! Men want more!  ManEvolving professional men's coaching will help you accomplish more.
  • ​Fire up Your Passion! Men are passionate creatures, but sometimes we need to pour some gas on that fire. Nothing can stop a passionate man!
  • ​Quicken The Pace.  If you want to be more, achieve more, and have more faster, you'll find that coaching is the answer!  Get past the crap so you can get it done!
  • ​Clarity.  Do you REALLY know what you want?  "Pretty much" or "for the most part" doesn't cut it.  Get it locked in like a laser and you cannot miss! 
  • ​Expand Your Self-Awareness.  If you want to be your very best for yourself, and your loved ones, you need to be aware of your words, actions, self-talk, and tendencies. 
  • ​Accountability Insurance.  We can fool ourselves sometimes. You need an accountability partner to hold you to your commitments ...with encouragement - NOT judgement!
  • ​Break Free From Destructive Habits.  How much longer are you going to go on with your destructive habit(s)?  Most men go about stopping them in the wrong way.
  • ​Form New Habits - That Serve You.  Form daily habits that move you closer to your goals and enhance the quality of your life.
  • ​Free Yourself From Your Past!  You are not captive to  your past circumstances or decisions...but you may think that you are.  
  • Master Your Thinking!  ANYTHING is possible once you learn to master your thinking.  
  • Master Your Emotions!  Imagine having control of your emotional responses in every situation!
  • ​Find Freedom From Guilt.  It's okay to do things for yourself and to move past your guilt! 
  • ​Create Balance in Your Life.  ALL men get out of balance.  Get balance back, without sacrificing your commitments or your goals.
  • Manage Your Obligations.  Men have heavy obligations.  Managing them takes thought, planning, and clarity of what you value. 
  • ​​Perspective.  It's so easy to be hard on ourselves and others.  Perspective is often all that is needed to pull you through a difficult situation.
  • ​Clarify Your Purpose.  What is your why?  We all say "to support our family", but there is more to it.  We serve our family, but it's okay to also serve ourselves at the same time.
  • ​Live With Peace in Your Life.  Life gets crazy.  You CAN experience peace everyday.  Find it again!
  • ​Negotiate a Major Life Change.  Change is hard.  Why go it alone?  You will never regret having a coach/partner to help you through it.
  • ​Greater Prosperity!  Coaching keeps you moving forward!  True prosperity (financial, relationship, accomplishment, spiritual, etc) is earned, not given. 

"Engaging the services of a professional coach demonstrates your
commitment to yourself, and those you serve in life!"

- Blake Tumbleson

About Coaching

Watch short video about the coaching process...

What is Coaching?

Coaching is based on the presupposition that YOU have the answers inside, but can benefit from a professional to help you find them.  

Models and Techniques
A coach is trained to ask the right questions based on your situation and unique view/map of the world.  ManEvolving Coaching utilizes models and techniques to draw out the best of you, from you!  The answers ultimately come from you.  

What is the Coach's Role?
A coach will keep you focused on your goals and desires, help you through the process of getting there, and then hold you accountable to follow through.  By engaging a trained,  competent and professional coach, you get to where you want to go with greater speed, grace, clarity, and certainty.  

What's the Focus?
Coaching focuses on this moment and the future.  It's not about rehashing old wounds, dwelling on specifics from the past, or placing blame, but rather the "process" of thought and personal responsibility.  We will spend time on changing your thought process in a way that empowers and serves you.

The Basis For Success
ManEvolving Coaching relies on the principles of Mindset Coaching, the power of Neuro-Linguistic Programming, and the structure of the ManEvolving Coaching System.  

Between Sessions
The real growth and change in your life occurs in the 166 hours between our sessions - not just the 1-2 hour session itself.  You'll always have something to work on between sessions.  Personal transformation is an amazingly enriching and fulfilling process!

Coaching is NOT....
Coaching is not therapy.  In therapy, you spend time on your past, the specifics of certain incidents, and how others may have hurt you.  Blake Tumbleson is not a trained therapist, but can refer you to a competent one, should that be your preference or what is best for you.   

Coaching is not consulting.  Consultants analyze your situation and ultimately tell you what you should do, based on their specific expertise.  Blake Tumbleson does not act as a consultant, but more like a trained accountability partner to help you get to your goal faster.

Coaching is Temporary?  The Results are Lasting!
The beauty of this is that coaching is by design, temporary. The goal is to teach you the process of discovering your own solutions through effective techniques that you can replicate on your own. The ManEvolving Coaching System is designed to help you to live a life of Peace, Passion, Purpose, and Prosperity.  

The Coaching Process

First things first!
I encourage you to get on the ManEvolving email list, now.  By doing this, we can stay in touch and you will always be the first to know about new programs, new products, free stuff, and stay current on what's happening in the ManEvolving world.  

I'll never sell your email address and I won't wear out your inbox with mumbo jumbo, gobbly gook, or namby pamby, bullsh*#!  (not sure what all that means, but you understand)

How To Start NOW!
Second, click on the "How Do I Start" buttons found on this site.  You'll simply give me your contact information and I'll contact you.   Here is the process in a nutshell...
  • Check me out: check out this site and Blake Tumbleson (me).  Be sure you like what you see.
  • "Guy Talk" Session: This is not a coaching session and there is no cost or commitment on your part or mine.  We'll invest about 45-minutes talking about coaching, your goals and frustrations, and what you can expect during coaching.  Afterwards you can decide to start coaching, hold off for now, or pass on it altogether.  Any decision is acceptable.  I have no interest in selling you.  It's up to you.
  • ManEvolving "CoachSecure" System.  I use a software platform.  You'll have your own log-in, password, and profile.  This is how we will communicate between sessions, track progress, and how I'll deliver documents and other information to you. 
  • ​Pre-Game: Prior to the commencement of coaching, we'll both sign a Coaching Agreement. This ensures realistic expectations, outlines responsibilities for both of us, and sets us up for success.  Everything is done electronically and I make it easy....for both of us!
  • ​Payment: Payment will occur prior to coaching. Coaching will begin after you've paid in full.
  • Coaching: Coaching term and frequency varies based on your needs and the package you purchased.  Initially, we'll meet once per week for 1-2 hours.  All meetings occur over Zoom Video Conferencing or (rarely) by phone.  This makes scheduling and meeting very convenient.  For men who are ready, coaching is a richly rewarding and a life-changing process!  This is our goal.
Ethical Guidelines
ManEvolving Men's Coaching  follows the ethical guidelines prescribed by the International Coaching Federation (ICF) and International NLP Association (INA).

"It does not matter to me who or where you were yesterday. 

 Let's work on where you're going, and who you will become!"

- Blake Tumbleson

Issues We Discuss...

High Value Change
My specialty is high value change.  The definition of "high value" varies from man to man.  Essentially, it means helping you with issues that, once solved, will make a profound impact on your life.  

It's about you and your needs.
Fortunately, this is not a comparison or competition between you and anyone else.  It's about you and your needs.  Stopping a bad habit, overcoming a fear or phobia, or starting a productive habit can all be considered high value.  But so can simply seeing things from a new or different perspective (what we refer to as a "reframe").  

Issues discussed may include...
  • ​Building on your success
  • ​Getting unstuck
  • ​Break repeating patterns that don't serve you 
  • ​Stop Self-sabotage
  • ​Dealing with others (relationships)
  • ​Major life change(s)
  • ​Gaining Discipline
  • ​Career/Job Issues
  • ​Internal (inside you) conflict
  • ​Feeling spread too thin
  • ​Overcoming childhood issues/father
  • ​Feeling unappreciated or disrespected
  • ​ Conquering fears or phobias
  • ​Balancing your obligations
Many of these issues slow your progress in life and lead to frustration.  

Life is too short to remain stuck in an unresourceful thought pattern or limitation!

Creating Success! 
Overcoming any one of these issues can free your mind and emotions, and allow you to progress rapidly toward your goals and ambitions!  (Ex: imagine what happens if you blow up a dam!)

EVERY man faces "stuff" in life!  It's what you DO ABOUT IT that matters!  

What will you do?  Some men medicate, deny, distract, or blame.

Others are more mature, self-aware, honest, motivated, and take personal responsibility and action.  

Guys!  We're all imperfect!
The truth is, we all fit into all of these categories at one time or another.  There is no shame or judgement.  Just opportunity.... seized or lost.

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About ManEvolving

What is "ManEvolving?"

The ManEvolving name and brand was born after a major life change in 2009.  

Evolution of a philosophy
I had made massive personal changes in an effort to correct a life that had become a mess.  During the process, and countless hours of introspection, goal setting, visualization, and some very hard realizations, it dawned on me that none of this happened in a moment, like a "picture", but rather a "movie" or evolution.  I was a man who was evolving....ManEvolving!  This became more than just a word or idea for me.  It became a philosophy and I offered to any man with whom it resonates. 

Signposts 
After years of struggle, change, growth, and personal development, I identified certain thought patterns, habits, and techniques that were helpful and resourceful to me.  I also identified many that were detrimental to my growth as a man, and the many roles I have in life (father, husband, friend, etc).  

Relentlessness pays off!
I always wanted to work in the field of personal development and help other people.  I had studied personal development my entire life, yet found my own life in a mess.

As so often happens, it was my personal experiences that finally launched me into the field of coaching and personal development.  

Lightbulb moment!
Why not take what I've learned, organize it, back it up with the study of coaching, NLP, create the ManEvolving Coaching System, and offer it to other men? It was then that the ManEvolving philosophy, brand and business was born!

I like to say...

"ManEvolving was born from failure, refined by struggle, and flourishes in a life philosophy of Peace, Passion, Purpose, and Prosperity!"

ManEvesto!

ManEvolving ManEvesto
The ManEvolving ManEvesto?
Over the years I've created my own personal creed or manifesto.  I've decided to share it with you as a branded ManEvolving ManEvesto!

What is it?
The ManEvolving ManEvesto is a manifesto for my life as a ManEvolving.  I share it with you only as an opportunity to learn and grow, should it resonate with you.

What if I don't agree with your philosophy?
Then that is awesome!  Why?  Because part of the ManEvesto is valuing honesty and transparency.  Another part is not feeling the need to pontificate or correct those with whom I disagree, or disagree with me.

What is my expectation?
Belief in the ManEvolving Philosophy or ManEvesto is neither a requirement or expectation of our coaching relationship.  If it were it would be a blatant violation of the philosophy itself!

I have no philosophical expectation of you as my client.  My expectation is that you'll live up to the terms of our Coaching Agreement, that you'll trust me so that you can progress, that you'll bring your best to  every session, and that you'll work between sessions to apply what you've learned.

Where is this ManEvesto of which you speak?
I use it for promotional purposes, but it's not a secret.  If you want a copy, just ask me and I'll shoot you an email with a .pdf copy that you can print on fancy paper and post if you like - feel free to frame it first!

Just 1 on 1 Coaching?

What Services Do You Offer?
One-on-one coaching is my primary focus for the moment.  However, I am developing products, courses, and webinars that will become available online, through this site, over time.  

What's the difference?
With one-on-one coaching, I can only help one man at a time.  That is enriching and fulfilling for me and hopefully, exciting and life-changing for my clients, but limits the  number of men I can reach.

By developing online courses I can scale my business, reach more men, and offer it all for far less money than one-on-one coaching.  One-on-one coaching is only for those serious about making massive change(s) in their life.  

Do You Offer Group Coaching?  
I'll be offering webinars and group packages in the future.  I have plans to offer in-person events in the future.

Keynote or Speaking?
Yes, I do offer opportunities to speak for groups or companies, but I'm limiting them as I develop other courses and products.  

What does ManEvolving Coaching Cost?
I only offer long-term "packages."  What that means is I don't offer single-hour blocks of time.  Your initial "Guy Talk" session is at no cost to you and may be our only session.  

Why only packages?
Massive change or breakthroughs often happen in an instant!  So, why not offer coaching by the hour?  Because sometimes it takes many hours to get to that instant!  Not all men are "all in" when they start, even if they feel that they are.  Progress happens weekly however.

Paying for personal development is one of the most valuable investments that a man can make in his life.  I only work with men who are committed to personal change and development.  Nothing says commitment like a financial investment.

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About Blake...

Some history about the man you'll be working with...


If you decide to proceed with coaching, we'll be spending several hours talking each month.  This is me doing my part to tell you a little about me.  I'll get to know you during our free "Guy Talk" session and during the coaching sessions.

Over the years I've faced my share of failure and my share of successes.  I've been humbled.  I've searched for answers, I've worked hard and figured out how to tame my EGO (Evolutionary Growth Obstruction!).  I found out that life gets better....and better, but sometimes you have to struggle first.  Regardless, you have to MAKE it happen.  That's when it gets fun, fulfilling, and when growth really happens.

First, the basics

  • I am very happily married! (Married in 2012)
  • Previously married 19 years, and divorced in 2009.
  • ​I have three boys and my wife has two boys. (I know, that's a lot of boys!). They are all young-adult age.
  • I grew up in and have worked in the aviation industry (aircraft sales/management) since I was a teenager.
  • ​I'm a pilot.  (I shovel it here, and "pilot" there...because pilots are full of it!)
  • ​I eat a vegan diet, which saved my life, changed my life, dramatically improved my health, and, um..."firmed my resolution" without the need for pills!  ...TMI?
  • ​I lost 50 lbs in 2009-10 and have kept it off
  • ​I sold my weights and only work out with VRB (variable resistance bands).  I HIGHLY recommend it!
  • ​Every day is a celebration for me!  Really!
  • ​I love fresh air, sunshine, Jeep Wranglers, hikes, walks, cycling (BTW, I can ride a unicycle), animals, and living during this age (chronological and the 2020's).
  • ​I sing and am learning to play the guitar.  
  • ​I'm a photographer.  It's amazing to me how we can capture a moment in time as a photo.  It's magic!
  • ​I'm an avid non-fiction reader.  
  • ​I ride a Can Am RT motorcycle.  (Born to be mild!)
Some of my life experiences

  • Played high school football for 4 years and in my junior and senior year, we were undefeated....No, no, I'm sorry, I mean we were defeated...never won a single game!  
  • ​Got a call in the middle of the night when I was 16-years old. I had to go wake up my Dad and tell him my oldest sister was dead.
  • ​Watched my Dad sit on the edge of the bed and cry more than once after receiving a call that he lost a friend in an airplane crash.
  • ​I lost our family aviation business in the 2001 recession.
  • ​Filed personal bankruptcy in 2002.
  • ​Once felt like a total failure in business, family, and life (guess when that was?).
  • ​I had a nasty divorce.
  • ​My blood panel numbers prior to 2009 were warning me of an early death.  I changed it and have been living a healthy life ever since.
  • ​I've wasted too much of my life in front of the TV and under the influence of alcohol.  Again, this has changed.
  • ​I've been screwed a couple times by businessmen who believed anything is acceptable, as long as you can get away with it.  That hasn't happened in a long time!
  • ​Created aircraft sales divisions 3 times from the ground up.
  • ​Sold hundreds of aircraft over the decades of my sales career.
Okay, so now you know a little bit about me.  They are just bullet points that barely scratch the surface of some very deep stuff.  

We all have our history and our stories.  There is so much more to my story.  But my story is no more or less important than yours.  It's just mine.

Of course, I've had some regrets, some sadness, some shame, and certainly I would have done some things differently, but isn't that the essence of evolving?  We make mistakes, we make adjustments, we do better, and just keep adjusting and growing.  

I've learned from the past, but also learned to not languish in it.

Of course, like you, my story is still evolving.  I remain faithfully committed to living life for the moment, but with integrity, while remaining optimistic about the future that I am creating.  I view every day as an opportunity to create something wonderful!

What Clients Are Saying...

Steve B.
"I have been working with Blake a few months now, and it's been a true blessing. I would highly recommend him to any man that needs a direct, straightforward approach to life. 

He is rich in experience and has been utterly invaluable in helping me market my business. In regards to achieving goals in my life, he has helped me reach them in a clear and concise manner.

Blake's laid back personality makes him an easy person to communicate and connect with. Along with that, he has a natural talent for asking thought provoking questions in a curious manner, and he's an excellent listener. 

He has definitely added value to my life, and I would recommend him to any man that needs help in achieving a goal."
Robert B.

"Blake and I worked together online for several sessions. Over the course of those hours, Blake displayed the presence and skills of a fine coach. 

He was non-judgemental, honest, attentive, curious and offered helpful advice throughout the period of our coaching work together. 

We applied many different proven techniques for positive change and growth. While the work was challenging and at times difficult, at the end of each session, I had a sense of developing as a person with new insights and successfully improving those things I chose to work on in my life. 

I highly recommend Blake Tumbleson as a coach."
Jason E.

“In working with Blake I found his coaching style to be conversational, relaxed, and just the right amount of momentum. 

Prior to meeting with him, I struggled with being an introverted salesperson. He helped me move past it and be comfortable putting myself out there. 

I highly recommend working with Blake."
John M.

"Blake is a knowledgeable and competent coach.  He's challenged my thinking on many levels....to help me move past obstacles.  I wholeheartedly recommend Blake."   
Jeff C.

"I worked with Blake for over many months.   During the coaching I felt comfortable and free from judgment. 

With the issues that I brought to our sessions, Blake met me where I was and worked with me at my pace, helping me identify the specific area that I was stuck on.

With work on my part between sessions and using some of the new awareness that I gained, my life feels smoother in general with less ups and down. 

I would recommend working with Blake to anyone. He is genuine and I felt that he always had my best interest in mind!"
* All client testimonials and photos are used by express written permission of the client.

What is the Investment to Coach with Blake?

I coach men on high value issues. These are issues that, once resolved, will make a significant impact on my client and/or those around them. These are issues that typically lead to more peace, more passion, more purpose, and more prosperity. As such, coaching with me will be an investment that you'll want to take seriously.

Our coaching commitment will typically be 6-12 months or longer. It took years to establish your current patterns of thinking, believing, and behaving.  Breaking thought patterns, establishing new patterns, replacing limiting beliefs and habits with empowering beliefs and habits, and applying this into your daily life takes time. Great progress can be made in a single session, but just like an "overnight success" story, it may take several sessions to begin to live your dream.  The effort and change required to live your dream is not easy, but it is always worth it!

My clients want to change their lives, not just one small issue. My clients are ready to make a commitment and do the work necessary to live an extraordinary life. They are passionate, or once were, and want that passion back.  They are high achievers who are committed to living life with passion!

Most of my clients come as referrals.  Accordingly, I don't typically offer hourly coaching and my fees vary based on the issue and the time required to find success.  If you want to know more, fill out the form below and I'll get back to you.  

How Do I Get Started?

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